brand new

So, I'm trying this new thing out. It's called "being more positive." Why would I need to do that?

Well, the people who know me best would tell you that I'm either very happy or very upset. They'd tell you that I'm either very positive or very negative. Basically, it's an either/or ordeal - my mood is never somewhere in between.

I'm going to put an end to this. As much as I feel like it doesn't affect others, I know it does. And as much as I feel like it doesn't really affect me, I know it does.

I also know that I'm not the only one out there who is like this. If you know you're the same way, you should do this with me. Just a suggestion...

Photo by NaPix -- Hmong Soul

Here are a set of basic rules I've created:

1. Keep negative thoughts and opinions of others (and things) to yourself. To put it simply, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all!
2. Don't hold grudges against others. To put it simply,  forgive and forget (most things, not all)!
3. Smile often and laugh much.
4. Don't focus as much on or talk as much about the negative. Focus on the positive!

By just following these four guidelines, my week has already been much better than usual. Each day, I have encountered problems (as always), but I've dealt with them in a more constructive, positive way. I've been less disappointed, less upset, and less angry.

I'm feeling better than I ever - I'm feeling brand new.

Sending happiness and happy days your way!